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080829 – Goodbye concert – Andrés Solé – Hagabion, Gothenburg, Sweden
First of all, thank you to everyone who came to the concert. You mean a lot to me, each and everyone of you. It felt like a family gathering to me, it really did. I left so filled with positive energy and love, that I know will carry me long in Miami. Thank you!
For those of you who missed the concert here are a couple of the comments that showered in the days following and then a short description of that nights events:
UA-PAN-LEROLEROLEROLEROLERO-SIM-BAM-BEN-TICOTICOTICO-TANTAN-CHEVERE!!!!! – EG

Thanks for a brilliant concert! – HF
Da nos la paz was my personal favorite…you really should get this recorded! Excellent performance, probably your best ever. Thank you! – LE
You were great, so wonderful – your power, goodness, energy, joy and talent spired as never before… – PM
The concert yesterday was wonderful, beautiful, inspiring! You are a rockstar, baby!!! – GS
When I think of the overall feeling that came through in your concert I immediately think love. But think about it again, what we all walked away with was a feeling respect. Keep following your dreams! – ML
It is wonderful to have those words and all the ones said to me personally after the concert with me as I follow my dreams to Miami. I am humbled.

The concert began with me playing and singing 4 of my songs: Sincero, La última llamada, Al verte and La Marcha. After that my great friend Claudio took charge of the guitar as he knows best and I focued entirely on singing 5 more of my songs: Amor de doble filo, Isla de mi corazón, Esperare, La muralla and Da nos la paz. I was wonderfully surprised to receive my first standing ovation. Wow, it felt great! So after that, with some help from the audience we sang a last ditty of mine, Vuelate (thanks to a call the night before from Elin, my saxophonist, saying she was coming and asking if I was going to play it, since it’s her favorite). After the concert I literally stood there getting hugs for 2 hours from dear friends. It was an unforgettable experience for me. Here are links to pictures and a video from the concert. If took a picture of video you know I would like, please send it!
Something I didn’t mention in my previous account is that I did quite a bit of talking too. Between songs I decided I was going to share with my audience the 10 most important things I had learned in my 10 years living in Sweden. I was asked by many to post these or mail them out, so I am doing that now. Here it is:
1. My first responsibility in life is to myself.
I believe the reason we are here on earth is for each other. But one can only truly give when one is strong, healthy, at peace. The world shuns selfishness, but that should not be confused with the responsibility we have to ourselves and our life. It is my responsibility to see that I am happy, healthy at peace. No one else can do this but me and no matter how hard I try, no one can do it for you, but you. I went around a while blaming my sorrows on everyone else, until I realized I had allow them or at least I was the only with the power to change them.
2. Things are not what they appear.
We all go around saying, “Hi how are you? Fine, thanks and you? Oh Fine.” When reality is another. We all have good and bad days. We all struggle with our own cross. I use to envy those who were richer, happier, more beautiful, more successful. But I have realized that one sees only half the picture. We think no one struggles like we do, that people would stop loving me if they knew me as I am. That is not true. We are all equal, with different talents and different weaknesses.
3. Our feelings are our best guide in life.
I have always been a very logical person. Very organized, disciplined, in need of control. I was brought up, as a latino male, to not listen to my feelings, to not show my weaknesses, to prove I can do it on my own. So I was, for the longest time completely out of touch with my feelings. I followed more what my reason told me, because I was taught to do so. WRONG! Feelings are our best guide. Learning to listen to yourself and what your heart is saying is essential. Most people are headed in a direction and have no idea why. Most people are headed in the direction that conveniently fits into their societies norm, because society says so. WRONG! Think for yourself. I am not saying to not listen to reason. Of course. That is why we have it built in to our brain. But if ever in a conflict of interests, where the brain says one thing and the heart another, don’t hesitate a second. Follow your heart!
4. Fears are our biggest hindrance.
This one was so eye opening for me that I actually lived for a year with my motto being: Whatever scares you, go do it. Fears were totally blocking my life and I was terrified. So I made myself face them. And the wonderful thing is that when you finally confront that monster, you realize that what looked like a mountain in your head actually fits in your hand. Don’t let fear stop you from living the life you want, deserve, were destined to live!
5. Everything has a reason for being and things work out for the best if you put your part.
I used to scorn the difficulties in my life. Wondering why this had to happen to me. But I have now learned that it is the difficulties in my life that often lead to my greatest joys, accomplishments, satisfactions. There is no real use in fighting life. Instead if one learns to accept what comes and find what it has to offer, it makes living a lot easier and more enjoyable. We are all going to get our share of breaks, happiness, luck, sorrow and pain. They are all important parts of life, accept them, embrace them, that is what living is all about. But we can’t expect things to fall in our lap. What we don’t like, we have the responsibility to change it. What we desire, we need to actively ask for. All things work out in the end. Worrying is of no avail.
6. If a person is nice to you, but mean to the waiter or anyone else, they are not a nice person.
I don’t go around judging people, no one has that right. I believe all people are good, but because of bad experiences, fear and need, they can be lead to do evil. I have often wondered how to correctly evaluate if a person is a good influence on me or not. If it is a person I should trust, invest my time in, let close into my heart and this phrase put it into such simple terms. This is especially important for me in matters of love, because it is so easy for me to be blinded by infatuation and therefor not really see a person as they are, only see what one wants to see. Of course most people are nice to you. They have a personal interest in being liked by you. But if that same person then turns around and stabs someone else in the back, guess where you’ll be when you fall out of favor with that person? Don’t forget that people can and do change as well. Time is always an important factor in learning about someone.
7. Our biggest resource we have in life is each other.
I can only accomplish so much on my own and my dreams and goals are much bigger then anything I could ever do on my own. Which is great because that forces me to have to work with other, and though it can be challenging, is always a very enriching experience. The number one reason I love music is because it is a tool for me being social. I love playing music with others, playing music for others, listening to others play music. We need others not only in our professional life, but in our personal, emotional, and spiritual life. All aspects of life are enhanced and adorned by the presence of others. Don’t be afraid to ask, give another person the chance to live out the reason they are here, to serve someone else. We all need to learn to give more, but we all need to really practice receiving. It’s a humbling thing.
8. My goal in life is not joy but peace.
I used to think that I wanted to be as happy as possible, all the time. Who fooled me into that silly thought? What happens with all other emotions, are they to be discarded? I was missing out on a bunch of other experiences which are also rich parts of life. Once one learns to embrace and accept all situations in life as they come, then there is true peace. The person who has found that peace is unbreakable. That is where I want to be. I want to be able to cry in sorrow, passionately cry, as I can laugh in joy. I want to be able to feel anger and have the peace to react correctly. Guilt in its right place, humbleness, curiosity, love, shame, pride, honor, weakness, all are welcome, and to find the peace in each and everyone.
9. Time is relative, there is no hurry.
I used to be in a hurry all the time. Trying to do as much at the same time as I could, and still feeling guilty all the time that I wasn’t doing enough. That’s all changed. Last years motto was: Do less, accomplish more. By running around, you end up half doing a million things, which are of no consequence at all, instead of focusing and doing one thing that really counts. I got a beautiful card from a great friend in California where they have different quotes children have said. The one I got, was a quote be Sarah a 12 year old girl who put it plainly to me, “It’s never too late to be a rock star.” My question is what is she doing thinking that at age 12? Well I guess she understands that time is relative, there is no hurry. Children have a talent to see life through such simple eyes. Oh that I could be a child once again… oh I can. Time is relative!
10. The power of thoughts: Thoughts become feelings, feelings become actions, actions become results.
Our mind is an incredible tool, whose only real product are thoughts. These thoughts can dream up giant pyramids, huge metal carcasses that fly and carry hundreds of people, sending pictures and sounds through the air from one place to the other and walking on the moon (four human accomplishments that never cease to amaze me). It is then only a few steps from the dream to its realization. Three small steps to be exact. Thoughts become feelings, feelings become actions, actions become results. But most of us are scared to dream, because we are afraid to have to face our own power and greatness.
I would love to hear your thoughts, leave me a comment! Which was your favorite? Or any words of wisdom you want to share with me…
I am thankful for the people who have been key in helping me grow and learn all this and more in my 10 years in Sweden. I will never forget you. I hope my experiences and this little list can inspire someone else to grow as well. A long, long, long hug to all.
4 comments September 26, 2008
080624 – Timo Räisänen – Liseberg
It was a wonderful evening. Ann and I went to Liseberg to see Timo Räisänen play on the big stage. The weather was sunny and blue and he sang a variety of songs from ballads to synth rock. He was bubbling with joy at how many people had shown up. To my surprise, his keyboardist and apparently second man was Hans Ohlsson from Universal Poplab who was also the man who mixed the music for our first video “Anzuelo”. It’s a small place, this wonderful town of Gothenburg. Timo’s music was not so familiar to me (I saw him playing once before), but he got me swaying to the music and smiling many times. A good concert!
Thank you Malle, once again!
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